Here’s the list of what my activities included for the rest of my 30 days of 30. I decided that instead of stories, I’d just share some pictures.
Day 10: Beach with Marie
Enjoying the sun with Marie
Day 11: Indian with Joann
Joann and I have known each other almost our whole lives! It was her first time eating Indian food in AGES.
Day 12: AA graduation + party
Normally I don’t drive in rush hour traffic, but I did it for my favorite client.
Day 13: BWI pick up and Treehouse
We thought it would be a treehouse, but really, it was a cabin on stilts.
“The choice to love is a choice to connect—to find ourselves in the other.”
bell hooks, All About Love
We are a people hardwired for connection and it’s in and through our relationships with others that we come to best know ourselves. At its heart, connection, relationships, self-awareness, and reflection are what my 30 days of 30 is all about: I get 30 days to celebrate the completion of 30 years of life and to acknowledge all of the intricacies that contribute to this life of mine.
I was in the middle of the spiral mentioned here and it was time to find a new home. I answered a Craigslist ad for an apartment with a woman; I was so desperate for a new space—somewhere of my own, and somewhere to create new memories—that I would have taken a closet, as long as it wasn’t with a serial killer.
18 months later, I am a new(er) person. I lived through my thawing out, thanks to community and I’ve spent the last year living in and through love.